Burying the dead is a corporal work of mercy because Christians care for the bodies of humans—even though they are deceased. The Church treats the deceased person with reverence and will provide as respectful a burial service as can be arranged.
The body of one we have loved forcefully brings to mind the mystery of life and death and our belief that our human bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit and destined for future glory at the resurrection of the dead. In addition, the body which lies in death recalls the personal story of faith, the shared history with those present, the relationships, and the continued spiritual presence of the deceased person.
The long-standing practice of burying the body of the deceased in a grave or tomb as was Jesus, continues to be encouraged as a sign of Christian faith. However, owing to contemporary cultural considerations, the practice of cremation has become part of Catholic practice in New Zealand and other parts of the western world. The 1983 Code of Canon Law states that cremation is not forbidden "unless it has been chosen for reasons which are contrary to Christian teaching." (Can.1176.3)
The parish is there to support the bereaved at the time of a death. This is just as true for those who have do not have strong ties with a parish as for those who do. The priest will welcome the opportunity to discuss the funeral ceremony with family or friends who are planning the funeral, or with the funeral director on their behalf. He, or a representative from the parish can help them select scripture readings and hymns and arrange the role that different people will take during the service.
Vigil Service
It is an ancient practice of the Church to keep vigil on the eve of major Christian feasts. It treats Christian burials the same way. On the evening before the funeral, those who wish it may have a vigil service. This usually takes place in the church but it can be held in the family home. It is centred on scripture readings and prayer. It is also a time for paying tribute to the deceased person and recalling memories.
Funeral Service (without a Mass)
Sometimes a family prefers a simple funeral service without a Mass, with readings from scripture, prayer and music and a final commendation. During the commendation the casket is sprinkled with blessed water as a reminder of their baptism. Incense symbolises the prayer surrounding the deceased person and rising to God. There is no liturgy of the Eucharist or Holy Communion at this service.
Mass
The Mass celebrates our journey with Christ through death to everlasting life. During the Funeral Mass (Requiem), the readings from scripture highlight the mercy and forgiveness of God. The prayers at this time are for the deceased person as well as for the bereaved, for all present and for the whole Church. The deceased person is commended to God's mercy with thanks to God for the gift of their life.
To get in contact with your Parish, visit the diocesan website.
Copyright 2008 Catholic Communications for the NZ Catholic Bishops' Conference
